Black Women Deserve Better – Empowering Black Women To Expand Their Options & Realize Their Potential

*Updated* Videos 100+

Below are some of the more recent videos…More couples are on a slideshow further down the page…Demonstrating Black women are free to be who they are…There are men who WILL LOVE YOU without having a certain skin complexion, a certain hair length and texture or bodyshape….Yes, we all need to do our best and be healthy, wise, and in good spirits….Being your best is not a pressure of conformity to a well discussed set of impossible/unrealistic standards certain pockets of society uphold…The message is clear: YOU ARE ENOUGH! YOU DO NOT HAVE TO MIMIC A KING OR XXL MAGAZINE COVER TO BE LOVED! ARE WE CLEAR???


****First the ugly…A perfect example of the kind of influence many Black Communities are under…***Warning this video is rated ‘I’ for IGNORANCE…DO NOT WATCH if you cannot handle negativity….This is a visual aide of what results ensue from being reared in these enclaves…This Pastor Manning guy even tells on himself….


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Margarette Foster and Christopher Gulinello

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/03/01/fashion/weddings/01FOSTER.html?_r=1&ref=weddings

Heather Tookes and Christopher Alexopoulos

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/09/21/fashion/weddings/21TOOKES.html?_r=2&ref=weddings&oref=slogin&oref=slogin

Zerolynn and John

We married on August 4, 2007. We sing the praises of eHarmony to all of our friends and family. If not for this site, I would not have found the man who is a perfect for me and I for him….(CONT)

http://www.eharmony.com/singles/servlet/success/somany-more

Congratulations To Josh & Ruthlyn On Their Marriage This Summer!

(Read Their Story Here: http://bfinterracial3.blogspot.com/ Thanx Evia!)

Please Feel Free To Add Any Relevant Contributions….

New York Times:

Jennifer Newsom and Thomas Carruthers

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/25/fashion/weddings/25NEWSOM.html?ref=weddings

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/04/06/fashion/weddings/06VOWS.html?ref=weddings

Cascya Charlot and Thomas Ludwig

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/02/24/fashion/weddings/24charlot.html

Eve Thompson and Richard Robinson

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/01/20/fashion/weddings/20vows.html?scp=1&sq=january&st=nyt

Cassandra Pettiford and Garrick Landsberg

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/12/07/fashion/weddings/07pettiford.html?ref=weddings

(I receive many pics by email…Please advise if yours shows up and you want it removed…Thanx!)

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My Co-workers & I read gossip mags such as “US”, “Star”, “Enquirer” & “People” on a weekly basis. The WM who are married to BW are rarely (if ever) photographed with their significant other. For example: I have read at least five magazines which ran stories on Justin Chamber’s sleep disorder. However, the way the pieces were written, one would never know that he has a wife. I guess it’s one of those inconvenient truths. This phenomenon is half tempting me to write these people. On the other hand, it is not in the major publications interests to feature these couples…Because that would interfere with a certain standard of beauty. Below are just some of the MANY couples who are almost never shown with their partner.









19 Responses to “*Updated* Videos 100+”

  1. cassandra28uk said

    Nice video!

  2. Fox News reporter?

    Taye’s wife’s name is Idina. Love her. Him? Meh.

    It’s so weird to me that Halle-Gabriel and Djimon-Kimora are considered interracial couples. Halle is half white. Kimora is half black.

  3. Sylvia said

    that was a cool tribute!!

  4. Sandraneta said

    Loved the tribute. My husband and I celebrated seven years of marriage in May 2008. Interracial marriges between black women and white men always intrigue me because they reflect my reality.

  5. jenny said

    I love the vid ‘Paul and Shamon’s Wedding Video’ : )

  6. Paulie said

    I’ve been attracted to black women since I knew it and have been married to a beautiful, intelligent black lady for 7 years. Of course, like all mariages, we’ve had our ups and downs, but we both wouldn’t change a thing about our loves together.

  7. C W said

    Something for all to ponder:

    “‘To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did.’… When God takes something from your grasp, He’s not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better.”

  8. jess said

    who is in the 7th pic from the top?

  9. Prosechild said

    CW!! Oh my Jesus! Please be a fence Lord… I have been subjected to all types of ignorance before but the pastor’s video is one of the top 3 ignorant things I’ve ever seen. The fact that he left 2 sets of children, then says ‘pastors aren’t speaking out about that… I lost my family’ shows that he’s still not taking responsibility for what HE did.. no one should have to tell a grown ass man that leaving your wife and children is wrong! That’s not a pastor’s responsibility or Obama’s!

    And for him to say Michelle Obama is ugly, when she looks like HIM, and most of us, that’s all kinds of ways deranged. Talking about how big she is.. I wonder what the women in his congregation look like? Surely like me and you, and Michelle – and only a handful probably look like Lena Horne, Halle Berry or Coretta Scott King. I couldn’t even watch all of it, It made my skin crawl. And the fact that his ‘flock’ can stomach him on a regular basis, while tithing their income so he can continue his ‘international’ tirade.. CW I am just about shocked out of my skin. Very little shocks me to my core like this.

    You just don’t know how happy, relieved, proud I am that we are beautiful black women with free minds to think and choose our destinies for ourselves.. and saddened at the same time that many sistas are still in bondage to this type of thinking..

  10. C W said

    @Prosechild and others:

    Unfortunately a lot of people in the Black community were reared in this fashion…The walking dysfunctional!

  11. John said

    Thanks for these videos as they are beautiful (except the first one). I am one of the luckiest (white) men in the world to have won the love of an AA woman. Never have I been as happy or felt as truly blessed in life as I am with her.

    Black woman possesses a depth of character making her the most desirable of all women in the world.

  12. elise said

    i was wondering if you could give the names of the famous couples

  13. Maipai101 said

    Pastor Manning is a Joke. Look at his eyes there is something dark in him. He is a JOKE!

  14. That first video was absolutley digusting. I couldnt even watch it in its entirety. How is she a “Jezabel” because she showed her shoulders on The View!?

    That “King Kong’s little sister” comment WTF!?!? This is why I’ll NEVER… EVER set foot in a (black) church again, because its infested with BAFOON’S like him!!

    Sorry for the bad spelling but im over here fuming over that fucktard preacher X(

  15. Valerie said

    These video’s are lovely, however Pastor Manning works for Satan, he is taking the Lord’s words in vain. I was absolutely shocked, so he is saying that because Michelle is not like Lena Horne, Halle Berry and Coretta King, she is ugly. Clearly he is completely possessed. Only fair skin women are beautiful, I wonder if he realises that Halle Berry is mixed race and not black. Michelle Obama is one of the most educated, brilliant, beautiful first ladies ever to grace the White House.

  16. Amanda said

    That man has some issues. He talks about Michelle talking about if you want some beautiful bw then lets talk about Leena Horne etc. Notice they don’t have the same color as Michelle.

  17. C W said

    Indeed…All the women he listed pass the “paperbag test” …Very telling~!

  18. kissofdanger said

    Pastor Manning is such a joke!

  19. JamDown said

    Joe Madison’s daughter’s interracial wedding:

    http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/gallery/2009/08/07/GA2009080703029.html

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