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Demonstrating Hypocrisy To Black Women….
Posted on April 23, 2008 by C W
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypocrisy
“Hypocrisy (or being a hypocrite) is the act of opposing or not purporting a belief or behaviour while holding the same beliefs or behaviours at the same time, or vice versa.”
Girls….I want to share with you a message received today in reference to my private myspace page “Black Women Deserve Better” ( http://www.myspace.com/blackwomendeservebetter ) ….The responders name is Kuf Knots ( http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=217157450 ) …I want Black women not to be swayed by these types of emails/comments once beginning to open options and travelling down her own path…Be true to thine self!
“HEY
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honestly this site publication is ridiculous!!How dare you put Black men down - do you there is history being made by a Black male running for president - do you bash your father , your grandfather.. ? your son who will be half black.. ? Are you gonna give him any positive black role model to look upto - since he wont be given a fair chance by the white men with power because of his skin color.. ?
Wow I totally blown away by the ingorance of this site and poeple involved with it.
do you think only black men cheat.. ?
LOL- I PRAY FOR YALL.
PEACE “
Out of curiosity, I viewed his profile just to see where Kuf Knotz was coming from…I like to examine the reasons why someone would write hate mail to a dedicated blog…This myspace is NOTHING like this blog…It is simply an opportunity for Black woman to get acquainted with Non-Black men if that’s their choice…A peaceful enviorment, no DBR/Oppression talk…LOL…Very laid back…It is private simply to make the members feel comfortable and reduce/eliminate trolls…But here is the best part…When I was looking thru Kuf Knotz photos, here’s what I found
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Gotta Have “Spoiler Space”
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ROTFLMAO…Of course this is well within his civil rights…But why is he writing me???
Filed under: Black Women | Tagged: Black Women, black women deserve better, contrarian, DBR, DBRBM, hypocrisy, interracial, interracial dating, myspace, non black men
Love it…lol…..oh my…didn’t I JUST know it..lol.
Oh relax CW, he’s just “sticking it to the man”.
What is wrong with him, it must be the full moon or something, the dogs are howling!lol
u ladies are killin’ me! LOL
*blank stare*
I have nothing.
*whispers* But I just knew it was coming!
I like his double piercing though!
And let’s not forget that the caption for the picture is ‘Lucky Kuf’.
That man is so ridiculous. A hypocrite at best.
That man is about as bright as Alaska in December!!!! What the deuce?
LMAO!!!! Thank you, CW! I almost spit up my water I was drinking when I saw that photo. Priceless.
Black men are dog poo.
…and they wonder why the whole world has no respect for them as men. Not all black men are “dog poo”, but too many of them are, and not enough good ones to combat the bad. Did you point out his stupidity to him?.. and then block him.
I get them all the time on my myspace, Their profile would be so anti-black female, I use to think they were requesting friendship as a sick joke. If they have just ONE pic of a white girl somewhere, one too many white women in their network, or on the top friend list… I hit the X button like a trigger finger.
Just the other night I turned down yet another black male, this one was married to a young white girl. On her private profile message it says “you bitchez he’s mine cauze he don’t want your azz”. Now it made me wonder who that pathetic ebonhick-talking trophy maid was referring to.
Maybe I’m over reacting, but I was furious. And I’m getting sick and tired of seeing these men all over myspace with their hypocritical epidemic.
-sigh
Umm, doesn’t he look like Jughead to you guys? I’m so happy for him, a life long dream finally came through.. Poor thing.
Heh. “Pot meet kettle” at its finest.
I just came to this site through a link.
Was actually looking for hair care products. LOL So I’m leaving my two cents.
I’m not trippin off Obama. I don’t see how he relates to the discussion.
Michelle found herself a good CAPABLE man. But what the hell does Obama have to do with the majority of BM in America?
Anyway this dude is a hypocrite. They’re all hypocrites.
I can’t visit a forum without hearing these damaged whiny ass black men spewing hatred towards black women. What’s that about?
…and this brotha–please…I bet his ass doesn’t say crap when BM are running down BW.
Anyway I grew up hearing about “BW got too much attitude; They have too much mouth, etc..Thats why I date WW…”
Black men have been bashing BW (for whatever stupid reason they can think of) for as long as I’ve been alive. And it’s undeserved. But when BW flip it. Holding them under the microscope they can’t handle it. More than likely because we actually have LEGITIMATE reasons for telling them that they’re not good enough.
Now many are pissy because sistas wanna date IR? They can all kiss my ass–and I don’t even date IR. (Actually–I’m married. To a BLACK MAN. A GOOD one, ladies!).
But I will defend the sistas who do!
If you beat a dog down too many times the dog will do two things: Bite you or run away.
These days more and more sistas are running or using that infamous Black Girl attitude/smart ass mouth to verbally castrate these males!
I know we should not act as adversaries. It solves nothing as Black People–it’s sad. Still I will not check a sista for doing it. I won’t. Because:
1. BM started this and need a dose of their own damn medicine.
2. More than likely it’s well-deserved. I am tired of BM using BW as their damned punching bags because they can’t get it together.
Anyway half the time she’s just saying what MOST sistas actually think but will only say among other BW(for various reasons).
i.e., the term ‘niggas ain’t shit’.
I’m not advocating any particular race/group but Black women DO deserve better.
Me and my husband had this discussion when we first began dating. We got into IR matters and he actually took offense to the fact that I thought it’d be okay for sistas to date IR (white men).
But get this: He’d slept with white girls!
Child…when I got through ‘readin’ his behind, he couldn’t say a word. He wanted to, but he couldn’t–because he knew I was right!
I love black men to death but thank god I am married because half of these males are just fucked up. They really ain’t worth a DAMN….
Little more than walking stereotypes.
I challenge you to go to Tampa Fl. Or Houston. Or Atlanta. I promise that you’ll find more brothas who are drug-dealers, baby-daddies and scrubs than you will those who are college-educated w/LEGITIMATE jobs and good credit.
I run into sistas like this ALL THE TIME.
There is a shortage of dateable brothas.
It’s not perception.
Hell most of my male cousins are in prison! How’s THAT for perception? The females? We’re either in school. Working. Or in the military. I’ve lived in San Antonio, Houston, Atlanta, Florida…I see this scenario repeated more often than not. And I don’t know how it came to be like this.
I’ve only been on this earth 27 yrs but I know it was not like this in the 60’s. I cannot figure out what happened in a single generation to produce so many screwed up males!
What’s even more shocking to me is the fact that white women can deal with them! I mean–aren’t they used to BETTER?
Lord knows WW *usually* get all the DAMAGED ONES. That’s why half of them go there there in the first place. Most don’t even date WW for real reasons.
Most have issues with women. But project their issues onto ALL black women instead of self-assessment and getting the professional help they need.
Well, I’m all for BM dating WW. Go there and stay gone. We need quality men in our ranks.
But then I remember half the attraction for BM to WW is the idea that she could be a doormat (in their minds, b/cause she’s white). I can’t even begin to tell you how many brothas have told me they date white women because WW will do ‘whatever they want’. So in a way it makes sense.
Neanderthals…
>>sigh<<<
Oh well.
…sure am seeing a whole lot of white ‘babymamas’ these days.
Surprised?
You shouldn’t be.
@Tish OMG everything you said is a 100%!!!
“…sure am seeing a whole lot of white ‘babymamas’ these days.
Surprised?
You shouldn’t be.”
I read this part & I started rolling on the floor because here in Vegas its like that & back in ATL the other city I transit through its like that as well!! TOO funny too me!!
ALL Black Men are dog poo! Been saying them assholes abuse us Black females, including my mama, my sisters, and ME my WHOLE LIFE!
Excuses. Stupid Black men.
I am hungry.
(I accidentally deleted some comments…reposting from my email)
KUF KNOTZ
LOL..FUNNY IT IS VERY FUNNY HOW YOU ALL HAVE SO MUCH HATE IN YOUR BLOOD. FOR ONE THING I DIDNT SAY ANYTHING WAS WRONG WITH DATING OUTSIDE OF YOUR RACE. MY PROBLEM IS THAT YOU PUT BLACK MEN DOWN. YOU CANT JUDGE A WHOLE RACE BECAUSE OF A FEW BAD APPLES. DO YOU THINK BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY MN WHO CHEAT OR PUT WOMEN DOWN..? IF SO I REALLY HAVE APROBLEM WIH THAT. ALSO HOW AM I A HYPOCRITE..? A PICTURE OF ME WITH TWO FRIENDS AFTER A SHOW..? SORRY I OFFENDED YOU ALL AND STIRRED UP SO MUCH HATE BUT I WAS SIMPLY STATING AN OPINION..I HAVE DATED BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN , WHITE WOMEN , ASAIN WOMEN , ETHIOPIAN WOMEN , INDIAN WOMEN AND LOVE THEM ALL SAME. I COULD NEVER NOT DATE ANYONE BECAUSE OF THERE RACE - YA’LL ARE AS BAD AS THE KLAN WITH THAT ATTITUDE TOWARDS US BLACK MEN. PEACE KUF “THE SO CALLED HYPOCRITE” KNOTZ
CW ..I DONT WANT TO GO BACK AND FORTH AND FIGHT WITH YOU.. I AM IN NO WAY TELLING YOU WHAT TO DO..I DONT EVEN KNOW YOU . I HAVE A FRIEND WHO IS ON THE SITE AND THAT IS HOW I SAW THE PAGE. I WAS JUST LEAVING MY OPINION BECAUSE I FELT VERY INSULTED. EITHER WAY NO HARD FEELINGS JUST WISH THAT PEOPLE COULD HAVE AN OPEN MIND WHEN IT COMES TO DATING AND STOP LIMITING THIER OPTIONS…..GOOD DAY PEACE.
My thoughts…
Kuf Knotz had to go around the block in order to get to his elbow…Meaning, he found the BWDB myspace page thru a friend of a friend and HAD to give an opinion…Keep in mind the site is private with members who seek only BW IR interests…There is nothing that can be construed as negative on the site…Black women, think long and hard about this when hesitating to live YOUR life!
ok, now I get it… black men can abuse us but we can’t call them on it? F’ing “wife beaters” is what most bm are equivalent too. And OJ is the postor child!
jenny…all you can do is live your life to the fullest…all any of us can do : )
JENNY - WIFE BEATERS….? DO YOU THINK ONLY BLACK MEN HAVE LAYED HANDS ON WOMEN…HAVE YOU EVER HEAR OF A LITTLE THING CALLED SLAVERY AND THE ACTIONS THAT TOOK PLACE..? RAPE , ABUSE …ECT…? JUST CURIOUS